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  • @godai

    Happy New Year sir! Kamusta na po?
  • @mstudmr

    Gustohin ko man kaso gusto ko kasi nilalait ako nila master godai at alex. Hahaha
  • ishare mo na yan elaine.
  • @elaine

    Share mo na daw sabi ni Alexis. Baka maunahan ka pa daw ni Ogie Diaz!
  • Ok share ko na..


    Im on a relationship now. LDR kami. Nasa saudi si jowa. I can say na I found the one. Char! So yun na nga, pansin ko lang kasi sa lahat ginagawa nya or desisyon nya medyo sablay lang kasi madalas late ko na nalalaman. Yung anak nyang bunso ang halos kausap nya regarding sa mga bagay na yan. Which is feeling ko left behind na talaga ako. I confronted him telling him na.. "kayo kayo lang nagkakaalaman ah." Sabi nya mabuti naman na daw yung mga ginagawa nya. Oh yes! Nandun na tayo kaso partner nya ko eh. So until now di ko sya kinakausap. Naiirita ako. Haha
  • @elaine

    I think you're currently still an outsider as far as they are concerned. Don't blame them as maybe may bad experience na sila in the past kaya ganyan. Are you living with his kids? Did he ask you to directly watch over his family while he's away? Baka naman ikaw lang ang may expectations?
  • @master

    Yes may bad experiences sila ng mga anak nya in the past lalo na sa x wife nya. When they got separated, silang mag aama lang ang magkasama sa hirap at ginhawa. Im not living with them nasa laguna sila nandito pa din ako sa QC. Minsan umuuwi ako dun. Pero every year pag umuuwi si jowa nandun ako hanggang sa makabalik sya.

    Expectations? Wala naman but I know for sure that I should be treated fairly. He was a good father and a partner. Kaya pakiramdam ako ang sama sama ko pag ganitong akala nya inaaway ko sya kahit hindi naman. Hayssss..

    -- edited by fairylaine21 on Jan 03 2024, 07:08 PM
  • hayaan mo sya sa mga desisyon nya sa buhay. Hindi pa yan nakakapag adjust sa mga bagay bagay.
  • Noted po. Hahaha
  • @elaine
    pansin ko lang kasi sa lahat ginagawa nya or desisyon nya medyo sablay lang kasi madalas late ko na nalalaman.

    You expect to be kept informed (or consulted) when a significant decision is made.
    Expectations? Wala naman but I know for sure that I should be treated fairly. He was a good father and a partner. Kaya pakiramdam ko ang sama sama ko pag ganitong akala nya inaaway ko sya kahit hindi naman. Hayssss.

    Ayun ang isa pang expectation mo. You want to be treated fairly because invested ka na sa relationship and expect to be treated to a certain amount of courtesy when it comes to the decision-making. Remove all those expectations. Nasanay na sila na walang nanay sa setup nila. They had been getting along fine (albeit with plenty of faulty decisions) so don't expect them to change the way they do things with you in the picture - eh sino ka ba sa pamilya nila kundi GF lang?! Wag ka na muna umasa, masasaktan ka lang.

    Pero kung asawa ka na tapos ganun pa rin ang trato sa iyo, ibang usapan na yun. Gyera patani na kapag ganun pa rin.
  • ikaw master G kamusta na lablayp mo?
  • pansin ko lang kasi sa lahat ginagawa nya or desisyon nya medyo sablay lang kasi madalas late ko na nalalaman.


    so don't expect them to change the way they do things with you in the picture


    super relate sa mga kamaganak kapag dating sa mga habilin (lupa, final will, mana, bahay, etc)

    Remove all those expectations


    case to case basis IMHO. if habilin ang pinag uusapan at ikaw yung next of kin, you have all the right. like sir Godai said, kung asawa ka na tapos ganun pa rin ang trato sa iyo, ibang usapan na yun. Gyera patani na kapag ganun pa rin.

    For me never naging masama ang ipaglaban o i-persue ang karapatan mo.
  • Ouch! Haha
  • @alexis
    ikaw master G kamusta na lablayp mo?

    Ok naman. I'm in a good relationship since November 2015. =)
  • It's one of those days..

    I am so not in the mood to work today. I can't even seem to get anything done. Haaay.. Tomorrow is a holiday at the office (thanks to the feast of the Black Nazarene) but honestly, I'm, struggling to find the inspiration to get myself working..

    Haaay..

    -- edited by Godai_Yusaku on Jan 14 2024, 07:21 PM
  • but honestly, I'm, struggling to find the inspiration to get myself working

    hanap na ng iba sir. hehe
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  • pansin ko lang kasi sa lahat ginagawa nya or desisyon nya medyo sablay lang kasi madalas late ko na nalalaman.


    You have to approach this head on. Ikaw naman ang magshare at unahin mo siya sa mga desisyon mo. Baka matauhan.
  • Listening to the radio and I hear this ad from Gcash about not sharing your OTP codes.. Had a big laugh with how smart it was written.. Has anybody heard this radio ad?
  • it has been a long time since i have listened to the radio. mostly is youtube nalang talaga. will check it out.

    I'm, struggling to find the inspiration


    same, same. ang hirap na kapag na achieve mo na halos lahat sa buhay. yung hobbies mo like casual gaming, or pc building or car maintenance/upgrades e parang wala ng thrill or napagsawaan na.

    hanap na ng iba sir. hehe


    tried this na din. nag ala- Rico Blanco moves having a way, way younger lass, pero sa unang months lang din ang excitement, walang pinag kaiba if bata or middle-aged. Well, one difference though is bubot pa, supple AF.

    Kayo, musta summer nyo mga masters?
  • @everyone, musta naman kayong lahat? I'm glad buhay pa rin tong thread, nawala na yung "Samahan ng mga wala..."

    Ok share ko na..


    Im on a relationship now. LDR kami. Nasa saudi si jowa. I can say na I found the one. Char! So yun na nga, pansin ko lang kasi sa lahat ginagawa nya or desisyon nya medyo sablay lang kasi madalas late ko na nalalaman. Yung anak nyang bunso ang halos kausap nya regarding sa mga bagay na yan. Which is feeling ko left behind na talaga ako. I confronted him telling him na.. "kayo kayo lang nagkakaalaman ah." Sabi nya mabuti naman na daw yung mga ginagawa nya. Oh yes! Nandun na tayo kaso partner nya ko eh. So until now di ko sya kinakausap. Naiirita ako. Haha


    @elaine, your perseverance is admirable considering the red flags that you've experienced. As long as you're able to compromise and you're happy then go. But if you feel that if it's taking a toll on your mental health, you may want to reconsider your options.

    It's one of those days..

    I am so not in the mood to work today. I can't even seem to get anything done. Haaay.. Tomorrow is a holiday at the office (thanks to the feast of the Black Nazarene) but honestly, I'm, struggling to find the inspiration to get myself working..

    Haaay..


    @master G, you're probably feeling having signs of burnout. Ever tried checking self-help audiobooks sa YT? That might help to avoid procrastination.
  • from TPC days until today, parang wala naman nagbago sa pag uugali ko.. same parin. hahaha!

    wala lang, share ko lang.
  • ...padaan po.
  • uy pogi musta kana? ilan na anak nyo ng asawa nyo?
  • uy pogi musta kana? ilan na anak nyo ng asawa nyo?


    para sa akin po ba ito?

    pogi pa din naman.
  • pogi pa din naman.


    eh anak?
  • eh anak?

    dalawa na.

    teka kilala ba kita dati?
  • teka kilala ba kita dati?

    oo dati pa. nung ex ka pa ni angelwen. hahaha
  • oo dati pa. nung ex ka pa ni angelwen. hahaha

    di ko kilala yan.

    teka ikaw ba yung babaero ng Dubai?
  • teka ikaw ba yung babaero ng Dubai?


    hindi. born again na ako