Forum Topic

*Samahan ng mga wala o nawalan ng love life o single uli (no textspeak, do not reply to trolls)

  • ^depende if type mo yung tao. Ako naman kung type ko nagpapakita talaga ako ng interes kahit sabihin natin di pantay yung nararamdaman nya for me. But of course may hangganan pa rin if patuloy ako sa effort ko pero ramdam ko talaga na di sya interesado, ako na mismo yung hihinto.
  • @Godai_Yusaku

    in short gusto nila straight forward na sabihin ko gusto ko sila ligawan? and tell her what i really feel right away?

    or wait muna ako ng ilan dates pa (naka 3 dates palang kami)? obviously naman interested ako sa kanya kasi nageeffort ako.. kaso baka hindi nya nakikita kasi hindi ako traditonal manligaw like flowers/choco and hatid/sundo... tipong go with the flow lang..
  • May gusto sya sabihin sakin. Di daw nya masabi thru text or phone. There is something going on saming dalawa. She wants sa personal mag usap. May hahaha sa text nya after that. \\

    Napag iisep tuloy ako.
  • in short gusto nila straight forward na sabihin ko gusto ko sila ligawan? and tell her what i really feel right away?

    Yes. Wala nang getting to know you and sa halip ay tatanungin mo na agad kung puede bang umakyat ng ligaw? Tatanggi pa yan and magpapakipot pero in reality ay kilig na kilig na.
    or wait muna ako ng ilan dates pa (naka 3 dates palang kami)? obviously naman interested ako sa kanya kasi nageeffort ako.. kaso baka hindi nya nakikita kasi hindi ako traditonal manligaw like flowers/choco and hatid/sundo... tipong go with the flow lang..

    If they consent to a friendly date then great! Don't wait for the 3rd date to say na gusto mo siya ligawan. Yan mga ganyan na NBSB ay makunat nang talaga kung tutuusin kaya need mo maging vigilant using the old-fashioned methods. But if ikaw yung go with the flow guy and di mo feel gumamit ng traditional methods, best to find a different girl kasi it just won't work. The girl wants definitive proof and effort that gusto mo siya. Words mean little so you go all-in and do it with guns blazing. Only then will you break through such a tough shell and succeed.

    Good luck!
  • May gusto sya sabihin sakin. Di daw nya masabi thru text or phone. There is something going on saming dalawa. She wants sa personal mag usap. May hahaha sa text nya after that.

    Alam ko na sasabihin nya... PAUTANG!

    OR aalukin ka nya ng networking..

    -- edited by Godai_Yusaku on May 22 2019, 03:23 PM
  • makisawsaw lang on topic of NBSB na 30's, since di na nga to naghahanap ng "fling", it helps din kung financially stable na yung manliligaw nya since most probably time is ticking for them to have an offspring.
  • @Godai_Yusaku




    so kung ganito mga NBSB or matagal ng single.. sino ba may problem sila (masyado silang mapili) or yun manliligaw (kulang pa ang effort)?

    pinaka best hint ba para malaman kung interested sayo or not, pag wala syang ginagawang effort or make time for you? OR they 're also interested (gusto ka rin nila) but since matigas lang talaga puso nila gusto nila ikaw lang kikilos and gagawa ng lahat sa courtship and dating stage?
  • @requiem_inferni

    marami ako kakilala na NBSB/matagal ng single and above 30.. yun mga suitors nila financially stable naman.. pero mapili parin sila.. so honestly hindi ko talaga alam kung ano ba hanap nila..
  • so kung ganito mga NBSB or matagal ng single.. sino ba may problem sila (masyado silang mapili) or yun manliligaw (kulang pa ang effort)?

    Both. May problema sila because they probably have some sort of psychological complex that needs to be overcome but tamad sila or wala silang kakayahan na ma-overcome yun on their own. It would take herculean effort from a suitor to get them to get swept off their comfort zone.
    pinaka best hint ba para malaman kung interested sayo or not, pag wala syang ginagawang effort or make time for you? OR they 're also interested (gusto ka rin nila) but since matigas lang talaga puso nila gusto nila ikaw lang kikilos and gagawa ng lahat sa courtship and dating stage?

    Gusto ka rin nila, they're just not sure of it yet. You have to convince such a person na worth it yung lahat para ipasok ka sa buhay nya. May hint ba kung gusto ka din nya? If she allows you to go on more than 1 date then she actually sees you as a potential candidate. Which is why dapat on the second date (or third) ay mag-announce ka na ng intention mo na umakyat ng ligaw. And if she gives you a chance, the arduous task of home visits (with flowers and gifts), surprise gifts at work (so that her workmates turn green with envy), and countless evenings of seeing her home safely will hopefully convince her that you're worth taking into her life.

    How long do you have to court such a lady? Hunker down for a 3-month battle of patience and endurance. Good luck!
  • so honestly hindi ko talaga alam kung ano ba hanap nila..

    Hindi rin nila alam ang gusto nila. But subconsciously they have a desire to be swept off their feet in the grandest way possible.
  • siguro kelangan din i-decode kung nasa acceptance stage na ba sila na di na sila magkaka-jowa or kung hoping pa rin. heto pa yung mga tipo na work bahay lang ang routine, tapos frequent travels with friends na mga single din kaya shrug off talaga yung kakiligan sa kanila. take her away from her single friends I guess? kumbaga lumabas or do something of her interest together. dito na kelangan i-up yung communication game ng suitor para kahit kayong 2 lang eh tumatakbo yung kwentuhan.
  • @requiem

    I personally don't think that there's a heterosexual Pinay female out there who doesn't dream of being in a fulfilling union regardless of age. Some may say na "matanda na ako" or "di na ako umaasa" but if and when someone comes along who is able to prove himself worthy, she will surely take him in.
  • @all

    Gusto kong mag-post ng insights sa mga karanasan ko kaso dami lang talagang work. Will get back on this some other time.

    Ang advice ko:
    If nahihirapan sa much older or 30+ women ay go for the same age or kaya naman mas bata. (baka sa mga age group na ito kayo bagay)
    Mental maturity wise, may mga red flags ako na nakikita sa post ng iba, maybe due to lack of experience, ganoon lang talaga ang mentality nila or pananaw regarding relationships, etc.. Ikaw lang naman ang makakaalam if what you are doing is right or may something missing/sobra/mali/etc.. Maybe you are looking the other way around, yung babae ang not at fault here, kung hindi ang sarili natin.

    Just my cent on the matter for now.



    -- edited by ailanjezreel on May 23 2019, 12:56 PM
  • @ailan

    Modern pakboi tactics just won't work with such women. And there's nothing wrong with them just because they're not receptive to such strategies. =)
  • ano cons dating your bestfriend?
  • ^Accept the fact that you might lose your bestfriend.
  • ^Accept the fact that you might lose your bestfriend.


    you might end up loving or hating each other.

    Pero kung feeling mo naman na may pag asa why not. go lang ng go.
  • ano cons dating your bestfriend?

    1. Di ka puede magluko dahil alam nya lahat ng kalokohan mo
    2. Kapag nag-break kayo eh things will never be the same


    But beyond that, the pros are definitely well worth it.
  • ano cons dating your bestfriend?

    depende kasi yan kung ang bestfriend mo e guy o girl.
    pls specify your gender and the gender of your bestfriend.
  • I'm a guy po at girl si bf. Wala lang naisep ko lang ang awkward situation namin. tnx sa response guys.

    -- edited by Scamm3r on Jun 07 2019, 02:15 PM
  • ^

    hindi ka naman siguro scammer tulad ni xian gaza? XD..

    Go for it, kung mahal mo naman si bff, why not try.. lalaki tayo, ano naman kung mabasted ng bestfriend, di hanap ng ibang bff.. #JokeLang #MalayMoHinihintayLangNiyaDaMovesMo

    -- edited by Craser on Jun 07 2019, 02:45 PM
  • be direct to the point, sabihin mo bessy alam mo im falling for you.

    p.s. madami na kong napanood na ganyan sa movies hindi pa kasi sinabi agad nung guy na may gusto sya nagkaroon tuloy ng bf si bestfriend tapos niloko lang sya ang haba pa ng kwento then ang ending sila din pala talaga.
  • naalala ko tuloy yung napanood ko last week - Always Be My Maybe

    wala lang, nakakatuwa, mag bespren, hehe.
  • madami na kong napanood na ganyan sa movies hindi pa kasi sinabi agad nung guy na may gusto sya nagkaroon tuloy ng bf si bestfriend


    Wag gawing totga si bespren.. =P
  • Post deleted #12229520
  • Ayoko naman agad mag assume pero tingin nyo guys?


    go na sir. baka maunahan ka pa ng iba, sayang naman investment ng emotions hehe
  • Malungkot na pala dito :(
    Wala na yung share your story thread?

    -- edited by bebehkoh on Jun 08 2019, 09:06 AM
  • Post deleted #12229651