Pumayag siya magpakasal kasi yun nalang alam niya daw paraan para maging okay kami after kasal me mga tampuhan. at everytime na makikita ko yung chat sasabihin niya e wala daw kasi siya makausap dahil lagi daw ako galit.
1. She's a total IDIOT - if things are not okay, that alone is reason enough NOT to get married. Hindi porke ilang taon kayo naging bf/gf eh sapat na dahilan na yun para magpakasal sa isang tao. Marriage is not something you can simply back out of. Even more so when kids are involved na sa mix. Given your statements, she's clearly fallen out of love with you a long time ago. She's just such a big idiot that di nya nagawang panindigan yung nararamdaman nya (or lack of it).
2. You're a guilty fool - nakita mo na yung warning signs bago ka pa nag-propose pero tinuloy mo pa rin. Malamang your guilt pushed you to go through with it. And thinking na nagawa nyong tumagal ng ganun eh akala mo siguro you guys are truly meant to be together. BZZZZZT! Wrong!
You know what? If di siguro natuloy yang pregnancy nya eh hiniwalayan ka na nya. She must be regretting her decision to marry you since the day she found out that she was pregnant. In any case, di sapat na dahilan ang kids to stay together lalo at ganyan na ang nasa isip ng babae. Once the wife decides na ayaw na nya, it's the end of the road. And clearly your wife has long since decided na ayaw na nya. All these things na ginagawa nya eh preparation na for yung paghihiwalay ninyo.. She's laying down the foundations for a new life with somebody else.
Sorry bro but I only see a sad end to your marriage with the way things are going sa inyo. Best to ask her ng harapan kung gusto pa ba nya or ayaw na. And promise her that you will give support for the baby even if hiwalay na kayo - so that di nya iisipin na mag-stay sa marriage nyo for the sake of the baby. A man of the cloth would tell you to do everything short of martyrdom just to save your marriage. And I guess yan na nga ang ginagawa mo right now. I just feel na bumibigay ka na kaya ka nandito at nagtatanong sa mga taong di mo kaano-ano.
I've been down that road before and I know how painful it can be.. It will hurt like hell. But you'll just have to man up and deal with it.
Good luck and keep praying for a miracle until the very end.